Why won't he text you back? What is wrong with him after you had such a great time? Doesn't he want to contact you too? Communication today is great, especially texting. You can keep in touch with that great guy without having to jump right in to those inevitable awkward conversations in a new relationship. Texting is a comfortable way of "talking" with him. But, why won't he text you back?
Yes, texting is so easy; but, DON'T OVERDO IT.
Continuous texts will begin to note desperation and we all know that this is the worst word that any woman could be tagged with. You can convince yourself that it's proper etiquette to thank him for that great dinner date you had last night. While this is true, a thank-you can be accomplished with ONE text. It's fine to send that first text but then the next move is his. He will definitely respond if he's interested. The longer you are left waiting, the more difficult it becomes. Just keep in mind that, YES, he has received all of your texts. And, NO, his phone is not broken.
The next time you find yourself wondering why he won't text you back, try this. Close your eyes and envision this mental picture; your guy receives a text, he glances at his cell, he rolls his eyes because it's another text from you. Oh, no - delete! Now, put that phone down and find another surge of patience.
Remember, a guy likes to think he's calling the shots. If he feels he's getting pushed too hard, he will withdraw. And probably he is just as nervous as you about what he wants to say; he wants it to be just right also. What pressure we put on ourselves! Now, when that text finally comes, your actions or reactions are crucial. Be cool! If you answer within the first ten seconds, his mental picture is of you staring at your phone, devastated at the lack of action. Give it some time before you respond. Even a few hours is not too long. Let him sit and wonder for a while. Anyway, the sooner you text him, the sooner you are right back wondering why he won't text you back!